Is disagreeing the topic of the day?

[caribepr]

Well...cool! (eyes open wide as the wheat shines like gold and the chaff blows away)

[Ixolib]

I can probably be lumped into the "bad" group occasionally.
I have followed Hurricanes all my life and have a bit of sarcasm in me that can be taken the wrong way (and apparently HAS).
I got called out by a Moderator for using the term "-removed-" and was taken aback for the chastising until I re-read my post and it was a bit surly although not meant to be hurtful in any way.
So, I am more cognizant of what I type since by not hearing my tone of voice or inflection; my words can be more harsh or sarcastic then meant to be. My "humor" may not come across and be mistaken for being "nasty".
I guess the moral is to be mindful of others feelings and understand that we are a "family" here at S2K and that all of us can learn form others. The Pros are incredible and the amateurs have a lot to offer even if we do not agree with each other much of the time.
It is a "forum" and a chance to learn and interact with others who share a keen interest in a FASCINATING hobby, the following of Mother Nature and its fury.
I never knew that such a place existed until last September and this is an incredible resource and place to enjoy the drama and excitement with others who feel like me!!

Very well said - especially the last two paragraphs!! Thanks for providing the insight....

But, as an addendum... In my opinion, there is no doubt that there's a set of "different" folks on the tropical board this year - who weren't here last year - who seem to overstate their opinion on a regular basis, often to the point of becoming obnoxious. Certainly, the board exists to "discuss" issues relating to the tropics. But because S2K had become so well known in the past for offering such a friendly and welcoming atmosphere, any deviation from that norm really does stand out like a sore thumb.

I'm just going to remain hopeful that the Mods will take an even closer look at some of the posts made by this "different set" and apply the appropriate means to get things back to where they were before - an always nice, friendly, inviting, and pleasant place to post and visit.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's not all that - but it is at least somewhat less so than it used to be. Perhaps those "obnoxious" posters drifted over here from a less structured and friendly board and just assume it's okay to behave badly on this board. In fact, there are some boards where being anything less than obnoxious is grounds for ridicule!! They'd probably fit in just perfect there...

Unfortunately, it is typically these kinds of members - even if they're the minority - who can really begin to diminish the value of an otherwise great place to call "home" on the www .

[Acral]

I have been on http://www.talkweather.com for a number of years. One thing you all will notice about me is that I do not have a ton to say, but I try to be knowledgable in what I talk about.

Additionally, since I am the smartest person on the planet, I try to go easy on everyone else. (Joke) I make mistakes from time to time, but over the years, you'll note that my crazy way of "forecasting" tends to be more accurate than not. Color me crazy.

Having said all of that, it's great to have a site where we all share a common interest.

[Derecho]

I agree however, that it's not fun to read the board when every thread has negative comments about another post.

The board would be both

1) Mind numbingly boring, and

2) Worthless

If there were no negative comments about posts..(and I have a feeling it's heading towards both of the above eventually.)

What I'm blown away by is the simply unbelievable hypersensitivity of many posters. It seems anything other than "GREAT POST THANK YOU" sends a lot of people into an emotional crisis. Get over it.

[Petmom]

It is not that people don't agree that bothers me, but it is how people disagree, how they talk to each other. As long as people are respectful, i don't mind disagreements. So far, I think this forum is very nice. One good thing is that we have several moderators here and can keep track of things. I have been on boards with one moderator. There was no way she was going to keep up with it all at all times.

[kevin]

I agree however, that it's not fun to read the board when every thread has negative comments about another post.

The board would be both

1) Mind numbingly boring, and

2) Worthless

If there were no negative comments about posts..(and I have a feeling it's heading towards both of the above eventually.)

What I'm blown away by is the simply unbelievable hypersensitivity of many posters. It seems anything other than "GREAT POST THANK YOU" sends a lot of people into an emotional crisis. Get over it.

Thank you for your insightful and wonderful comments my dear esteemed colleague!

[stormchazer]

I myself have to remember that when I post, that written words can be construed many ways. I think we sometimes innocently post something that when read by another, it is percieved as arrogant, or condescending when that was not the intention.

We all just need to remember that words typed on a screen do not contain tone, pitch or a persons body language, which often help discern the real intent of their message. It is just consonants and vowels that the reader may sometimes see totally different then the original intent. For instance, those reading the past couple sentences may think I am smarter, or more full of B/S then I really am. Its a problem I have had all my life.

The key is to be thoughtful and careful what you write. We are all here enjoying a hobby together and just trying to get through another Hurricane Season.

[aprilflower]

I agree however, that it's not fun to read the board when every thread has negative comments about another post.

The board would be both

1) Mind numbingly boring, and

2) Worthless

If there were no negative comments about posts..(and I have a feeling it's heading towards both of the above eventually.)

What I'm blown away by is the simply unbelievable hypersensitivity of many posters. It seems anything other than "GREAT POST THANK YOU" sends a lot of people into an emotional crisis. Get over it.

Disagreement is *sometimes* healthy, when it's done right. How else would we see another person's viewpoint and possibly learn from it if it's not presented?

That being said, I don't think anyone is hypersensitive about a belief or opinion being challenged, I think the problem is when it becomes a personal attack.

There is nothing wrong with saying

"I don't agree with that logic and here's why:..."

rather than saying

"hey you idiot, you don't know what your'e talking about- could you get any more stupid?"

just my $.02.

[Rainband]

I agree however, that it's not fun to read the board when every thread has negative comments about another post.

The board would be both

1) Mind numbingly boring, and

2) Worthless

If there were no negative comments about posts..(and I have a feeling it's heading towards both of the above eventually.)

What I'm blown away by is the simply unbelievable hypersensitivity of many posters. It seems anything other than "GREAT POST THANK YOU" sends a lot of people into an emotional crisis. Get over it.

If you disgaree with someone then provide facts to why and back them with science.Just.. Do it with respect. There is no reason to be rude. As for your above comments, they speak for themselves. S2K has rules and they are for the benefit of all involved. I assure you we will never be worthless or Mind Numbing

[msbee]

"Not meaning to be harsh or bossy since I am new around here but there is a tactful way to approach posts you don't agree with. You can disagree with someone without giving them a double whammy blow in the stomach for not agreeing with you."

well said. Unfortunately this post was followed by the following post which said:
"This is a stupid post. I disagree with you."

was it really necessary to say this is a stupid post? You can disagree but not insult, can't you?

[Rainband]

"Not meaning to be harsh or bossy since I am new around here but there is a tactful way to approach posts you don't agree with. You can disagree with someone without giving them a double whammy blow in the stomach for not agreeing with you."

well said. Unfortunately this post was followed by the following post which said:
"This is a stupid post. I disagree with you."

was it really necessary to say this is a stupid post? You can disagree but not insult, can't you?

I agree

[banshee]

Disagreeable posts arent a problem, in fact, one of the best threads i've read in a while was about a week ago when the experts and pro's were debating with someone who didnt exactly provide facts for what he was saying. Excellent learning experience for me.

What is a problem is when weather dummies, like myself, are reading posts and along comes a spider who says, or yells, ..... look at the VISIBLE people ...... the center is blatantly obvious when you crank up the whatever .....

Negative. I know the visible is black and white and the IR has colors. I cranked up the animation and then cranked it back down and still didnt see anything blatantly obvious except a storm going from here to there.

I'm here to learn, not be insulted by pro met wanna be's.

[wolfmmiii]

I agree however, that it's not fun to read the board when every thread has negative comments about another post.

The board would be both

1) Mind numbingly boring, and

2) Worthless

If there were no negative comments about posts..(and I have a feeling it's heading towards both of the above eventually.)

What I'm blown away by is the simply unbelievable hypersensitivity of many posters. It seems anything other than "GREAT POST THANK YOU" sends a lot of people into an emotional crisis. Get over it.

That last paragraph is dead on.

[abajan]

Yes - I think "TACT" would be a great definition for all of us to learn . . .

Tact is a careful consideration of the feelings and values of another so as tocreate harmonious relationships with a reduced potential for conflict or offense. Tact is a virtue.

We've all heard the saying, "Sticks and stones may hurt my bones but words can never hurt me". Well, the truth is that words can cut way deeper than sticks and stones.

Unfortunately, I've been guilty of hurling a few choice nasty words at others who I've disagreed with.