Bron, sending prayers up as I type.
How many children does she have? Sometimes, it's not so much about financial stability as it is family. The concern that the immigration services has is that they want to make sure a person who comes here to visit will have a reason to go back home after the stay here. A good paying job is one. A family back home that depends on that person is another.
Also, be sure she gets on it soon. It can take months to get it approved. She can also check with the consulate and find out about maybe getting a hardship visa. Sure, this isn't an emergency, thank God. But sometimes, with a little persistence, a person can get a visa quicker when they show what their need to come here is -- in this case, the baby and you.
Or if you know someone who could sponsor her visit, it might make things easier. They don't actually have to pay for anything, but they sign an affidavit swearing to support your mom during her visit (more of that financial stability stuff -- they don't want her to need to find a job here and end up keeping it and staying).
It bites that people who want to come visit legitimately have such a hard time getting here but people who want to come do us harm get in without us even flinching.
Best of luck and prayers to your mom, you, and the baby!
