(((((((((((Rob))))))))))), I believe the biggest point of your post earlier was that she would be a fish. She hasn't made landfall yet and there's still room for a turn...if you believe it will happen.
Don't be so hard on yourself, buddy. We're all wrong sometimes. You're not completely wrong yet. But even if she does become a disaster, it's not your fault. You're not God. These things do happen for a reason and we don't always know what the reason is.
True, it is a bummer for this to be happening at the same time as the anniversary of 9/11. But there are only 365 days in a year. Stuff happens on good days and bad. My dad died the day before Thanksgiving, my mom died the day before Valentine's Day, and my great-grandmother died on Christmas Eve (different years, of course). I joke that I'll probably die on the day before St. Paddy's Day, which would suck cuz it's also 5 days before my b-day.
I hate that you're crying about this. Not that guys can't cry. But seriously, don't tear yourself up over this. Keep your chin up. Your input is valuable here...and so is your support.
(By the way, for those who don't know, in most chat circles, putting a name within parentheses ((( ))) is a cyber hug.
