
My cat may be put to sleep!
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My cat may be put to sleep!
My mom just took our cat to the vet. It's not looking good, they think she may have kidney disease, and if so...
...they'll put her to sleep. We'll find out by 8.

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I had a yorkie Lacey who was diagnosed with kidney failure shortly before Easter this year. We ended up having to put her to sleep on June 3oth this year. It was the most painful thing. I still hurt. Even though we are presently looking to get another yorkie soon, nothing will ever replace my Lacey.
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My cat, Derby, had kidney failure, but it was something that occurred gradually. The last year of his life was the toughest. We were giving him IV solutions a couple of times a week for a few months. He'd have good days and bad days and we just kept looking for a sign from him that he was ready to go.
I guess it all depends upon the severity and your vet will know best. It is very tough to lose your pet. I hope that what they do find is not as serious as first thought!
I guess it all depends upon the severity and your vet will know best. It is very tough to lose your pet. I hope that what they do find is not as serious as first thought!
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Make sure that they check for DIABETES. A diabetic cat will pee like a racehorse - prompting suspicion of kidney issues.
If you do your best (and it sounds like you are), then you have no reason to carry guilt if kitty should have to be "let go". That will be the last, greatest act of love that you can show. I have attended five cats as they were put to sleep. It is always hard, but I smile and pet them, wanting them to drift off calm and knowing that they are loved. Afterwards, I always cry and cry for them. But for them, it really is peaceful. A cat who is already dying seems accepting of this and ready to rest. Only one cat didn't like the process, but she hated needles at any time. What happens is just that their breathing slows and slows and they are just gone. Due to how their nerves and all are wired, their eyes stay open. There may be just a tiny twitch or two, and sometimes last bit of air will come out, as if they are exhaling - but they are long gone. It is a massive overdose, and it does what it is supposed to - very fast and sure.
For many of us, such a loss is indeed the passing of a family member. For my wife and I, we cannot imagine any greater sorrow than that when we lost our cat Blaze. Prayers are with you and kitty-cat, but sometimes love means letting go - not selfishly extending pain and suffering because you "can't" love kitty enough to give them rest. It isn't about you at that point. Hang in there!
If you do your best (and it sounds like you are), then you have no reason to carry guilt if kitty should have to be "let go". That will be the last, greatest act of love that you can show. I have attended five cats as they were put to sleep. It is always hard, but I smile and pet them, wanting them to drift off calm and knowing that they are loved. Afterwards, I always cry and cry for them. But for them, it really is peaceful. A cat who is already dying seems accepting of this and ready to rest. Only one cat didn't like the process, but she hated needles at any time. What happens is just that their breathing slows and slows and they are just gone. Due to how their nerves and all are wired, their eyes stay open. There may be just a tiny twitch or two, and sometimes last bit of air will come out, as if they are exhaling - but they are long gone. It is a massive overdose, and it does what it is supposed to - very fast and sure.
For many of us, such a loss is indeed the passing of a family member. For my wife and I, we cannot imagine any greater sorrow than that when we lost our cat Blaze. Prayers are with you and kitty-cat, but sometimes love means letting go - not selfishly extending pain and suffering because you "can't" love kitty enough to give them rest. It isn't about you at that point. Hang in there!
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