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ENOUGH!!!!!!!!
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:15 pm
by deb_in_nc
I have had it!!!! I am soooooo mad! I'm going to take out a lone against my 401K, pay to get the house painted and get out ASAP. Hubby sold his truck for $500 yesterday has not a penny left and used it for crack. He stole my CD player and hocked that too. I just want to pick up and take off and leave them both here to let whatever happens happen.
I'm taking this as a sign that God doesn't want me here.
Debbie
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:17 pm
by CaptinCrunch
Do what you need to do to better yourself, it sounds like you need to move on for better times. Gods speed
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:17 pm
by roarusdogus
Yikes
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:22 pm
by stormraiser
Yes, Deb, I would be careful, but get out while you still can. Don't rock the boat. We wouldn't want him to go off and do something we would regret.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:23 pm
by GalvestonDuck
I'd say hubby is on his own now. No telling what else he'll sell or steal to get more crack. Get out now and save yourself and your sanity.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:30 pm
by therock1811
Man...I agree with the above get the heck out and don't look back...........
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:31 pm
by wx247
Deb... do what you must. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS)))
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:33 pm
by weatherlover427
As do I. Now is your chance. Take it while you can. You may regret it later.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:33 pm
by deb_in_nc
I have to. Talk about someone wanting to have a tantrum. Stepson has been leaving without telling anyone where he's going. I told him today he couldn't leave the house tonight and off he went. I also told hubby that Michael will not be going with me to NC. I've had it with the 2 of them. If they have to put him with a relative till he's 18, so be it. Daddy let's him do whatever he wants anyway.
Debbie
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:52 pm
by therock1811
Like I said, get out if you need to...if you need anything, PM one of us...I or anyone else here will be glad to talk to you............
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:54 pm
by Lindaloo
deb_in_fl wrote:I have to. Talk about someone wanting to have a tantrum. Stepson has been leaving without telling anyone where he's going. I told him today he couldn't leave the house tonight and off he went. I also told hubby that Michael will not be going with me to NC. I've had it with the 2 of them. If they have to put him with a relative till he's 18, so be it. Daddy let's him do whatever he wants anyway.
Debbie
deb... it is now time for you to start a new life somewhere. It is obvious that your husband only cares about one thing. You in no way deserve to live that kind of life. He does not want to be saved but you can save yourself before it is too late.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 5:58 pm
by Rainband
Deb God speed and good luck..my prayers are with you.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 6:03 pm
by stormraiser
I wouldn't get too involved with your "husband" and your decision, he may try something funny.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 6:25 pm
by Derek Ortt
Get out, while you still can
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 7:06 pm
by mf_dolphin
Deb, you can't help him if he doesn't want the help. There comes a time (NOW ) when you have to look out for your own health and welfare. You might want to consider a Baker Act action against him.... It might give you a couple of days to get out...
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 7:08 pm
by Pburgh
Don't paint the house. You may need that money for your own survival plus loans from a 401K take time - time that you don't have. Run, Run, get away from all of that. Do you have somewhere to go?? I'm not familar with your situation but I am concerned about your welfare. ((Hugs)) and prayers coming your way.
Take care my friend
Karan
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 7:22 pm
by chadtm80
Go and Go now!! He is not going to change.. Count your losses and leave.. Easier said then done, I know.. But trust me.> You need to GO.. If you need anything just let us know
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 7:23 pm
by Stormsfury
GalvestonDuck wrote:I'd say hubby is on his own now. No telling what else he'll sell or steal to get more crack. Get out now and save yourself and your sanity.
Best advice money can buy.
Debbie, you do NOT need that, period.
Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 7:57 pm
by weatherlover427
Also I am available if you need someone to lean on Debbie, feel free to contact me if necessary
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Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2003 8:00 pm
by Colin
Yes, get out while you can... :o God Bless.